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CIX: It Was Miller’s Time

Monday, March 21st, 2011
Heading into each week, I think about what is relevant to me, what is relevant to you potentially, our community, our world and more.
 
Sometimes it’s easy to think of things to write about … other times, not so much.
 
I planned to write about Jim Tressel.  We’ve talked that to death most likely, though.
 
Then a topic pops up and becomes more than obvious.
 
Two years ago, I had the pleasure of writing about Rick Moore, and his life and battle with cancer over a period of months.
 
Today, it’s about, as I said Saturday on facebook, “Rand Miller: first-ballot ~ Hall of Faith”
 
In culture, we can talk about the “it” factor.  Someone who gets it.
Rand had an “it” factor, and he got it. (See a pic/link –
http://tinyurl.com/6lxwmbg)Also, there is too much to say here, so I apologize this will be a longer one.
 
He simply lived an axiom that can be overused, “J - esus, O – thers, Y – ou (self).”
 
Rand Miller was a legacy-leaving man.  When it came to all aspects of family. Church.  Community. Business.
 
You name it, and he lived life well and blessed others.
 
I shared time with him on March 9 at a favorite of both of ours, Panera. We talked about our faith, finishing strong, the priorities of building into men, and much much more.
 
Ironically, my pastor, Grant Edwards, joined us for about 25 minutes. I remember Grant very intentional asking Rand about his health.  Rand talked about his heart (where he had some issues over the years) and how things were going pretty well.
 
Grant didn’t ask flippantly, and Rand didn’t respond flippantly.
That was the last we’d see of Rand.
 
I was excited leaving Panera that morning, because Rand had agreed, with another older businessman that same morning, to help us initiate a mentoring program to professional men of all ages.  We were excited about engaging between the generations.
 
That was a big win for me, and the Gathering.
 
Ironically, I heard this morning at a Locker Room, that Rand had often said he’d love to leave here and enter eternal life, while playing golf.
 
He and his wife, Sheryl, last activity together was a round of golf in Tennessee.
 
He met a group of men to study God’s word and apply the scriptures each Tuesday at 6 a.m. at Bob Evan’s.
 
His daughters, Jennie and Julie, were as different as night and day, but both had Rand in them.
 
Julie is an encourager and seems like your biggest cheerleader whenever you see her.
 
Jennie fills a room, and once you’ve met Jennie, you never forget her. She has never met a stranger.
 
In both cases, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
 
His grandson, Randon (who I have never met, but heard plenty about), spoke at my son’s Upwards basketball awards a couple of years back, and is known for his intelligence, athletic ability and great faith.
 
Once again, the apple doesn’t fall from the tree.
 
After a successful insurance career, Rand spent the last few years of Logo’s (Christian bookstore) existence, engaging customers like few I’ve ever seen at a bookstore.
 
He treated that job like his only job. He was knowledgeable,
courtesy, and greatly desired to leave his customers satisfied and being grateful for each shopping experience.
 
I know this weekend, at least one time in heaven, these words were uttered.
 
“Well done, good and faithful servant.”
 
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CVIII: Pride In A Sacrificial Buckeye ~ 3/7/11

Monday, March 7th, 2011

“Great leaders make great sacrifices.”... [Continue Reading]

CVII: At Any Age, His Hand Always Reaches

Sunday, February 20th, 2011
As the old line goes, God is never late, but He’s always right on time.
 
For Sonny Franzese, it took all of 94 years of living - and hard living at that – to finally get to the end of the line!
 
Read my friend, Michael Franzese’s (spoke at the 3rd The Gathering of Greater Springfield’s Outreach breakfast <9/21/10> facebook post around 1 p.m. Wednesday:
 
“GREAT NEWS! Thanks to the loving effort of chaplain Miriam from Cardone Industries in PA, who I had the pleasure of sharing the gospel with 2 weeks ago, my dad, Sonny Franzese, has accepted Jesus into his heart. Thousands of you have been praying for him. THANK YOU! At 94, he still needs prayer to complete God’s work in his life. Team Sonny, GO FOR IT!”
 
God’s timing = perfect!
 
We think God is far from faithful sometimes with timing, His plans, and more. If I know anything, I know this: His ways and thoughts are higher than mine, and His timetable is perfect.
 
He wants us to trust Him and wait on Him without getting ahead of Him.
 
  • We microwave … He simmers!
  • We rush through the crowd … He gazes and sees and meets needs that others miss.
  • We cram … He simplifies.
  • We move … He can not be moved.
  • We (often) labor in vain … His work always produces fruit.
 
Michael’s dad played his game, by his rules and in the end it got him life behind bars and an unfulfilled life.
 
But while being a prisoner for life here on earth, He now will be freer than ever before, thanks to many prayers and that PA chaplain.
 
We are never too far away, never too far gone, never out of the game, His hand will always reach down!

CVI: A “Leah” Bit About My Valentine!

Monday, February 14th, 2011

Sure we all say we have the best Valentine, but…. (see photos)... [Continue Reading]

CV: Why I LOVE the Aaron Rodgers win!!

Monday, February 7th, 2011

How do I love THE Aaron Rodgers story? Let me count the ways.... [Continue Reading]

CIV: What’s Your Story?

Monday, January 31st, 2011
 
An expression I used a lot, two-plus decades ago, was “What’s your story?”
  
It wasn’t typical, so some people looked at me befuddled.  What does that mean?
 
How are you? What’s going on? What’s new? Etc.
 
I still like that expression, because it’s open to interpretation when responding and everyone has a story.
 
Yes, we all do.
 
This is one of the many reasons I love bringing in the Barry Blacks (coming to ECA, 5/7/11), Todd Blackledges, Clay Crosses, Clark Kelloggs, Michael Franzeses, and partner with Cedarville University to hear experiences from the Will Schencks, Dan Cathys, Mac McQuistons. They have a story that will impact you.
 
Dan Cathy’s company Chick-Fil-A just put out a great 2.5 minute video that capsulizes this well: http://tinyurl.com/29jxgwh (a must watch!)
 
I read a great quote about our life change/growth in Christ recently.  
 
“Discipleship is when our story meets God’s story & becomes more like His!”
 
Some men I have the pleasure to work with have stories too.
 
  • One business owner recently had some healing from his parent’s suicide two decades past, that he had suppressed.
  • Another businessman has had significant victory over his battle with pornography as he and his dad work through some forgiveness issues.
  • Another public figure has been standing on God’s promises and victory as he feels beat up over the last several years of his work life.
 
As these tidbits of a story has been shared, men rally to one another, encourage, pray, lift one another up, and we are engaged in the process of becoming whole.
 
Guess what? Becoming whole will only happen as the last page of the story is turned. Let your whole book be read and absorbed, there is no turning to the last page.
  • Congressman Jim Jordan will be speaking @ www.ecaoh.com this THU & comedian Jeff Allen will be performing there on 3/12/11 (contact Jessica Dewey, jdewey@ecaoh.com or 390-3777,  for more information)
  • 2 weeks left in our DESIRES Lunch Serieshttp://tinyurl.com/2fa77ap - guys.  We are averaging 40/week. Please RSVP by WED afternoon!
  • SAVE THE DATE: US Senate Chaplain Barry Black will be here for our 4th Annual Outreach Event (a dinner, not a breakfast) @ www.ecaoh.com on SAT, 5/7/11!
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CIII: Gathering Data, Gathering Numbers

Monday, December 6th, 2010
Not sure about you, but as a man I get asked often about my job. 
 
“So what do you do?” 
“Tell me about the Gathering.”
“What is this Gathering thing all about?”
 
I get this more in non-profit world than I ever did as a sports writer, banker or college recruiter.
 
So, let me do a little “by the numbers” for you, which is good to share at this time of the year, as many folks think about year-end giving to non-profits. (Sure, we’ll call that a hint!) Math was my favorite subject in school!
 
The Gathering of Greater Springfield ~ By The Numbers
 
  • 1 ~ staff person
  • 2 ~ college presidents involved
  • 3 ~ local school superintendents involved
  • 4 ~ local Chamber staff members are key to our success(es)
  • 7 ~ high-quality, impactful national speakers (Barry Black <coming 5/7/11>Todd Blackledge, Clay Crosse, Michael Franzese, Clark Kellogg, Andre Thornton, and John Tolson)
  • 10 ~ great board members
  • 11 ~ Communities/cities, including South Africa, that have a Gathering presence nationally - www.thegathering.org
  • 12 ~ Locker Room groups currently meeting
  • 16 ~ partner churches (currently)
  • 35 ~ months since our inception
  • 70 ~ involved in bi-weekly (typically) Locker Room groups (average)
  • 270 ~ people attended 3rd outreach breakfast with Michael Franzese (increasing 40 per, since first year)
  • 460+ ~ attended first 2 Unleashed men’s conferences
  • 30,826 ~ total men in Springfield to be reached (and certainly beyond, considering Clark County, and niches in Beavercreek, Urbana, Xenia)
  • 62,844 ~ population of Springfield, Ohio
  • $90,000 ~ budget (roughly)
  • 736,673 ~ population of average Gathering city (roughly)
 
Keep in mind, this work can not be done alone.  I certainly am limited. 
 
We need great people, great partnerships, and God’s favor, which I think we have certainly seen.
 
Contact me to set up an appointment with me or with myself and a board member to talk more about the Gathering and how to get involved.
If you’d like to partner, I’m easily reachable and (since that time of year), you can partner and invest easily (online, through automatic withdrawal, good ol’ US mail): 

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CII: Gathering Circles: New, Diverse & Strong

Monday, November 15th, 2010

One of my favorite things of my work is the newness and diversity within our Gathering circles.... [Continue Reading]

CI: Life Isn’t Politics ~ 11/8/10

Monday, November 8th, 2010
 
After a wild football weekend and seeing a room in our house be completed after much labor, my head was spinning.
I also struggled much last with the canceling of my Dominican Republic trip, and thought no one wants to hear my moaning, groaning and have flamed-out bad attitude spew any ash.
Certainly, politics and voting were on most people’s minds last week.  I stumbled across an interesting read that has much value and finds much middle ground.
This was actually written prior to last Tuesday’s election. Wonder if more true now or then.  – JP
 
 
Life Isn’t Politics (www.mansfieldgroup.com), 10/24/10
 
 
I have just finished a week in Washington DC as I write this and I conclude my time disturbed by a shift that has happened in our national life. It is not the shift leftward that conservatives decry or the trend toward secularism that people of faith bemoan. I share these concerns but neither of these are the shift I have seen starkly this week. Instead, I am concerned about the shift of politics to the center of our lives.
 
I am a libertarian as far as my faith will allow and I have long believed that government and politics were never intended to be central to American life. Instead, government and politics were designed to protect those pursuits which make for the essential matters of life—work and community, family and faith, culture and, yes, the fun and the joy that should crown each passing day. I have often quoted the words of G. K. Chesterton, who said, “The greatest political storm flutters only a fringe of humanity.” A favorite quote, too, was from Governor Morris, one of my heroes among the founding fathers, who wrote, “The Constitution is not an instrument for government to restrain the people, it is an instrument for the people to restrain the government—lest it come to dominate our lives and interests.”
 
What should be central, then, is this broader matter of human “lives and interests.” Politics and government should be about protecting these. Yet our heated political wars, politicized media and thus our politicized citizenry have moved politics to the center of our society. Now, politics divides church members, separates friends, makes family dinners sound like the floor of Congress and even comes between husbands and wives.
 
If we allow this, though, then we have already lost the most important battle. If politics is central to all things, then this is simply another way of saying the state is central to all things. And when the state is central to all things, we are already socialists. We have already surrendered the beauty and thrill of life and replaced them with politics as life. This is a sin of both the political right and left today.
 
What grieves me is what politics as national obsession is doing to my country, and more importantly to my countrymen. When politics is central to a culture, it makes men hollow and vain. They become hungry for political power but they often seek it forgetting what politics is meant to be about—the leadership of a government that protects free citizens as they go about their business. Ignorant of their true purpose, they seek brute power at the costs of their souls—through the surrender of love and art, friendship and creativity, inspiration and the ideals that would make them men of nobility. Instead, they become what C. S. Lewis called “men without chests,” men with appetite and drive and intellect and yet without faith and character. They fight great political battles for the controls of state but they do not have any greater purpose for winning control but to exercise still more power. And so life becomes politics, but the meaningful pursuits of a free people must yield to make it so. We become a dull, politicized people led by preening power addicts who have no higher purpose for power than power itself. And beauty flees.
 
To effect a change, we do not need an act of Congress or a presidential decree. We simply need to push back. Refuse the constriction of politics. Live to the full and insist that politics be about protecting us as we do. Perhaps we should start by listening to some wisdom from Patrick Henry, a man who was concerned about this trend long ago: “Liberty necessitates the diminutization of political ambition and concern. Liberty necessitates concentration on other matters than mere civil governance. Rather, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, freemen must think on these things.”
 
Several great events coming up, SAVE THE DATES now:
Social media (over 1/2 day) seminar (12/14 – 8:30 – 2) in Bellefontaine by Urbana’s own, Tiffany Eckhardt – http://tinyurl.com/2vuyq4n – if needing help or wanting to grow this aspect of your brand, this is can’t miss!

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C: Pumped about Discipleship

Monday, November 1st, 2010

This past week reminded me why I love discipleship and why I hope it is my DNA.... [Continue Reading]